Christmas - A time for intimacy with the Lord
CHRISTMAS – A TIME FOR INTIMACY WITH THE LORD
Mario D’Couto
On looking at the title, one may get the impression that only Christmas is the season for having an intimacy with the Lord. But that was just the beginning. Our Lord Jesus Christ invites us to have a relationship with Him every day.
Last year, I had done a course called the ‘post-critical philosophy of God’ and if I could summarize the whole course in just a phrase, it is just this, “Life is not so much about us seeking God but rather God seeking us” and I think that the season of Christmas brings out this message strongly.
In the past, Christian theologians shaped their concept of God by Greek ideas of complete perfection. Since God was totally complete in His own being, God was absolutely immutable. Whatever happened to creation did not cause the least change in God. God’s ‘being afflicted’ was written off as anthropomorphism, a human way of speaking about God. However, over the years, the understanding has changed. Today, theologians have grasped the new clarity that Jesus’ own passion and death illustrates how much God was on the side of the underdogs, of all those rejected and all who suffer pain. Thus God very much shares in the suffering of His creation, especially for us His children as Fulton Sheen once said, “The purpose of Christ coming into this world was to die for our sins.”
When I look at scripture, I find a similar line of thought. If we look at the Old Testament, we could perhaps deduce that the image of God for the Israelites was that of a strict disciplinarian, who was waiting with a ‘big cane’ to punish each one for his or her sins and shortcomings. On the other hand, when Our Lord came into this world, He spoke about the love of God and this brought about a new lease of life into the people of Israel. J. Moltmann, in his book, “De taal der Bevrijding”, says something nice in this regard,
God showed Himself in the Man whose last words were, ‘My Lord, My Lord, why have You forsaken Me?’ God emptied Himself in the pain of love and died voluntarily a death of desperation. What did God do in that despised human being? God took upon Himself all the contempt we carry. In the suffering and dying of Jesus, God bridged the distance between us and Himself, so that no one can say, ‘See God doesn’t care!’
If I were to compare the size of a tiny stone to the environment or to the surroundings, it would not make a difference and precisely because it is insignificant. We are like that tiny stone when we compare ourselves to the whole reality of the world and the universe – INSIGNIFICANT. But the beauty lies in the fact that God Almighty has chosen to have a relationship with each of us and just as we put many stones together, we can make a brick and by putting many bricks together, we can build a house, so it is the same with us. God shares a unique relationship with each of us differently and He brings us together to form His own Body, the Church. This is something liberating given the fact that even though you and I have so many failings and shortcomings, yet the Lord chooses to have a relationship with each of us. Now this does not mean that we can go to the other extreme where one can say that if God shares a relationship with me despite my weakness, then I can go on doing what I like. That is madness! I think what is important is to be genuine about oneself and work on it. If one were to adopt such a standpoint, it would only be an act of pride and as we all know, pride is the root cause of all sin. God works more on our weaknesses than on our strengths. Allow me to highlight some examples from scripture which testify to it,
- Ø Adam and Eve sinned not because of their weakness but because of their strength. It was their proud defiance to be like God that brought them down.
- Ø It was the pride of a group of men and women who thought that they could challenge God by building a huge tower, “The Tower of Babel.”
- Ø Many Kings in Israel’s history were suppressed due to their trust in their own strengths. Ex: King Saul.
- Ø Even during Jesus’ time, He hated the Pharisees not because He did not like them but because they were closed to the message of God for they thought of themselves as ‘Puritans’ or ‘Unblemished lambs’ and depended on their own strengths.
My prayer and wish for us is that as we draw closer towards the feast of Christmas, that Christ may be born in our hearts, not just on 25th December 2011, but everyday and that we may always cherish the relationship He has called to share with each of us.