Our Lady and the Holy Rosary
OUR LADY AND THE HOLY ROSARY
Cl. Mario D’Couto SDB
There is an intimate link between
the Rosary and our Lady for in as much as we speak about the Holy Rosary, one
cannot ignore the personhood of our Lady and vice versa. Although apparently it
would seem that it is Marian in character, the Holy Rosary is very much a
Christo – centric prayer. It is a meditation on the Gospels which is nothing
but the life of our Lord. During the recitation of the Rosary,
We remember Christ with Mary
We learn Christ from Mary
We conform ourselves to Christ with Mary
We pray to Christ with Mary
We proclaim Christ with Mary
We listen to Christ with Mary
Our Lady is considered to be the
perfect and incomparable model when it comes to the contemplation of Christ,
for in as much as She was His perfect disciple, She was also His Mother. In a
unique way, the face of Her Son belongs to Her’s. This is what we call, in
biological terms, a symbiosis. It was in Her womb that Christ was formed,
receiving from Her a human resemblance which points to an even greater
spiritual closeness. No one has ever devoted himself to the contemplation of
the face of Christ as faithful as Mary. The eyes of Her heart already turned to
Him at the Annunciation, when She conceived Him by the power of the Holy
Spirit. In the months that followed, She began to sense His presence and to
picture His features. When at last She gave birth to Him in Bethlehem, Her eyes
were able to gaze tenderly on the face of Her Son, as She ‘wrapped Him in swaddling clothes and laid Him in a manger.’ (Luke
2:7)
Mary lived with Her eyes fixed on
Christ, treasuring His every word: ‘She
kept all these things, pondering them in Her heart’ (Luke 2:19; 2:51). The
memories of Jesus, impressed on Her heart, were always with Her, leading Her to
reflect on the various moments of Her life at Her Son’s side. In a way those
memories were to be the ‘rosary’
which She recited uninterruptedly throughout Her earthly life.
Besides this, the Rosary is also
very much an ‘anthropological’ prayer and the encyclical ‘Redemptor Hominis’
shows it. The words are as follows, “It
is only in the mystery of the Word made flesh that the mystery of the human
person is seen in its true light.” The Rosary helps us to open up this way
to this Light. Following in the path of Christ, in whom the human person’s path
is ‘recapitulated,’ revealed and
redeemed, believers come face to face with the image of the true human person.
Contemplating Christ’s birth, they learn of the sanctity of life; seeing the
household of Nazareth, they learn the original truth of the family according to
God’s plan; listening to the Master in the mysteries of His public ministry,
they find the light which leads them to the Kingdom of God; and following Him
on the way to Calvary, they learn the meaning of salvific suffering. Finally,
contemplating Christ and His Blessed Mother in glory, they see the goal towards
which each of us is called, if we allow ourselves to be healed and transformed
by the Holy Spirit. It could be said the each mystery of the Rosary, when
carefully meditated upon, sheds light on the mystery of the human person.
Today, the holy Rosary has sometimes
been avoided as it was felt that this kind of prayer could become monotonous.
The main problem in this kind of attitude is that when such people pray the
holy rosary this way, they do not contemplate on it. True, no doubt, sometimes
saying the “Hail Mary” can at times become monotonous but this will happen only
if one is not meditating on the mysteries. In this connection we should note that
although the repeated ‘Hail Mary’ is addressed directly to Mary, it is
actually, as mentioned before, directed to Jesus; it is to Jesus that the act
of love is ultimately directed, with and through our Blessed Mother. The reputation
is nourished by the desire to be conformed ever more completely to Christ, the
true programme of the Christian life. St. Paul expressed this project with
words of fire, “For me to live is Christ
and to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21) and again, “It is no longer I who live but Christ who lives in me.” (Galatians
2:20) The Rosary helps us to be conformed even closer to Christ until we can
attain true holiness.
The Holy Rosary could become a ‘scandal’
for our brethren of other denominational sects. Most of them regard us as ‘idol worshippers.’ But is it really true?
Absolutely not! We venerate the image. We should not be surprised that our
relationship with Christ makes use of a method. God communicates Himself to us
respecting our human emotions and its vital rhythm. Hence, while Christian
spirituality is familiar with the most sublime form of mystical silence in
which images, words and gestures are all, so to speak, suspended by an intense
and ineffable union with God, it normally engages the whole person in all his
complex psychological, physical and rational reality. This becomes apparent in
the liturgy.
Sacraments and sacramentals are structured as
a series of rites which bring into play all the dimensions of the person. The same
applies to non – liturgical prayers. This is confirmed by the fact that, in the
East, the most characteristic prayer of Christological meditation, centered on
the words, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of
God, have mercy on me a sinner” is traditionally linked to the rhythm of
breathing, while the practice favours perseverance in the prayer, it also in
some way embodies the desire for Christ to become the breath, the soul and the ‘all’
of one’s life.
On the whole, the Holy Rosary is
simply a method of contemplation and as a method it serves as a means to an end
and cannot become an end in itself. The Rosary is by nature a prayer for peace,
since it consists in the contemplation of Christ, the Prince of Peace, the one
who is ‘our peace’ (Ephesians 2:14). Anyone
who assimilates the mystery of Christ learns the secret of peace and makes it
his life’s project. It is for this reason that families are encouraged to pray
this simple yet profound prayer for as the famous saying goes, “The family that prays together, stays
together.” The family that prays the Rosary together reproduces something
of the atmosphere of the atmosphere at the household at Nazareth: its members
place Jesus at the centre, they share His joys and sorrow, they place their needs
and their plans in His hands, they draw from Him the hope and the strength to
go on.