Wealth or Time? You choose

 

WEALTH OR TIME? YOU CHOOSE

Mario D’Couto

We can all earn money or at least have the potential of earning money and maybe even recover money lost but none of us can earn time or recover time lost. We are all given 24 hours each day whether it is the president of the United States of America or the janitor sweeping the corridor and thus how we spend it matters because while it’s tiny increments may be something small, it nonetheless actually amounts to something very large. Time may just be humanity’s greatest creation because it is the way we measure the only truly non-renewable resource we have, given that no one can make more of it and once lost, it cannot be recovered. The opposite is equally true as well wherein it can be a powerful force as anyone who has ever watched small amounts of interest applied over a long enough period, the effects of compounding can be enormous.

As humans, we all crave for meaning and purpose and strive to find it in whatever we do and would love to pursue the things that bring joy to our lives although the plight remains wherein we seem stuck in our dead – end jobs that we don’t have the time to pursue those things that make us happy and thus are unable to find meaning and purpose. Thus, with that being said, time wasted is also wasting us. When we kill time, we are killing ourselves. We have to learn how to use time or it will use us up. The poet W. H. Auden offers some advice in regard to this based on stoicism, which can be seen in the following words, “The modern stoic knows that the surest way to discipline passion is to discipline time: decide what you want or ought to do during the day, then always do it exactly the same moments every day and passion will give you no trouble.” What this means is that routine is an essential tool in the management of time and suppression of those negative forces of distraction, procrastination and laziness. Sadly, it seems that the word ‘routine’ has got a bad wrap, something that is a drag and should be shunned whenever possible given the monotony and the drudgery that seems to be a part of it. However, that certainly isn’t the case. A solid routine fosters a well – worn groove for one’s mental energies and helps stave off the tyranny of moods. To follow a routine is to be on autopilot as the psychologist William James once attested that when we are able to put part of our lives on autopilot through the formation of good habits, we can free our minds to advance to really interesting fields of action. So how does one arrive at this stage or how do we, for those of us, from the working class create time for the things that bring us meaning, purpose and joy to our lives?

            Dave Ramsey has helped millions of people get out of debt and experience financial freedom. How did he do it? By teaching them to count the cost of their spending via an unbelievably simple tool which is, budgeting. It’s simply good stewardship to plan where you are going to spend every penny before your paycheck lands up in your hands. This may seem like plain old common sense and while many have been convinced by the power of budgeting one’s money, it seems that many have not taken into account the power of budgeting one’s time. For instance, we get to office, open our email and spend the rest of the day reacting rather than proactively focusing on the work we are called to do and then we wonder how we got to the end of the day feeling as though we did nothing of value. It’s what I call, “Wrestling with the bull” wherein either you catch the bull by the horns or you allow yourself to be tossed around violently by being headbutted by the bull’s horns. The person who wakes up whenever, does whatever and orders their day however, will never have enough time and will ways be behind while the disciplined person is one who will make the most of his or her time.   

Author Matt Perman writes in his book, “What’s best next: How the Gospel transforms the way we get things done,” the following words, “You are satisfied with your day when there is a match between what you value and how you spent your time.” However, the only way to consistently achieve that level of satisfaction is to budget time for the things you make before you are given the time to spend. How wise it would be to budget time rather than money and this is not to put financial budgeting in a bad light. In fact, we all need to financial budget but if we are not careful in the way we use and spend our time, we would be asking for trouble. That is where budgeting our time comes into play. In fact, the way we use our time will also help us generate income and it can also help us to recover any financial loss if we are ready to put in the time and effort. If we are to redeem our time, we would be wise to budget accordingly. We need to develop the habit of ensuring that every minute has a name before God gives us a fresh supply of it each morning.

            While this may sound a bit extreme and some creatives may even argue saying that they are not able to work unless when inspiration strikes, let’s not forget about what New York columnist David Brooks once said, “Creative people think like artists but work like accountants.” If we are not intentional in the way we use our time and think about how we use our time, we would be digging our graves. It’s like fitness. If I am not intentional about my diet and exercising regularly, if I am careless and just live on junk food and not exercise, not only would it lead to weight gain but it would lead to other health complications.

            Now as a working professional, I am by no means any master at time management and I have certainly had my fair share where I have slipped away from making the best use of my time. Besides working full time, I try to pursue other forms of creative pursuits like this blogpost where I use it as a platform to share the insights that I have learned through my reading and just from the experiences that life has taught me, alongside with Youtube where I try to make sense of the different experiences life has taught me through the lens of a Catholic perspective [if in case, you would like to check my Youtube channel, here is the link, https://www.youtube.com/@makingsenseoflife3135 ]. Plus I upload musical pieces on Instagram [ here is the link to my Instagram account, https://www.instagram.com/maressiano/ ] and although I call most of my pieces “Random Jamz”, it is anything but random given the thought process that goes behind coming up with the chord progressions, the melody, the arrangement of the instruments that will be used in that particular instrumental piece for although it may appear that I am soloing on the guitar to a backing track, I create my own backing tracks. I do occasionally post covers too but that happens on and off. I also intend to soon start my own podcast as well, once again using it as a platform to share my insights of what I have learned through my reading and from the experiences that life has taught me. This is not taking to account that I work full time in an office and can be bogged down by the demands of everyday life. At times, I wonder if I am trying to bite more than I can chew and yet this is what gives me fulfilment, meaning and purpose and for as long as I am alive, I will continue to pursue it. 

        Maybe you too have your dreams and aspirations but feel restricted to pursue them because of work and the demands of everyday life that you just don’t have the time to allocate to such activities. Here are a few examples of some of those famous people who pursued their interests despite being working professionals themselves like you and me, which I hope you can draw inspiration from, which are as follows,

Ø  The American novelist and essayist Nicholson Baker worked a series of jobs in Boston and New York while writing his first book, “The Mezzanine.” It’s been said that when he worked a job outside of Boston that required a 90 minute commute, he bought a mini-cassette recorder and dictated his writing while he drove. He would also make use of his lunch breaks to write which he described as a pure, blissful hour of freedom in the middle of the day to make notes for a novel and then would later put all his lunch-hour commuting notes together into a coherent novel.

Ø  In 1908, Franz Kafka landed a position at the Worker’s Accident Insurance Institute in Prague, where he was fortunate to be on the coveted ‘single shift’ system, which meant office hours from 8 or 9 a.m. in the morning until 2 or 3 p.m. in the afternoon. Although this was a distinct improvement over his previous job at a different insurance firm, which required long hours and frequent overtime, Kafka felt stymied. He was living with his family in a cramped apartment where he could muster the concentration to write only late at night, where everyone else was asleep. It is said that he would start around 10:30 p.m. in the night and go up to 1 or 2 or 3 a.m.in the morning. On one occasion he even went until 6 a.m. in the morning. He once wrote to his fiancée, Felice Bauer in 1912 about his life, “Time is short, my strength is limited, the office is a horror, the apartment is noisy and if a pleasant, straight – forward life is not possible, then one must wriggle through by subtle manoeuvrers.” Such was the way he worked.

Ø  Joseph Cornell was an artist known for making shadow boxes. A shadow box is a shallow, glass – fronted display case, like a deep picture frame, used to showcase and protect three – dimensional objects, souvenirs and so on, creating a sense of depth and story – telling for items like sports jerseys, medals, travel and so on. Unlike a flat frame, it provides space between the glass and the blackboard, allowing for layered, dimensional arrangements that capture memories or highlight collectibles. What’s interesting about this is that he did this while working a full time job, not forgetting that he was probably the sole bread – winner for his family where he lived with his mother and his handicapped brother. He was never married. He worked at nights at the kitchen table, sorting and assembling materials for his boxes. It was not easy going. Some nights he felt too fatigued from his day job to concentrate on his art but eventually with time, he mustered the courage to give up his job and focus on his art full – time.

Ø  The American poet Wallace Stevens would use his lunch break time where he worked at the Hartford Accident and Indemnity Company, going for an hour long walk wherein during this time, he composed poetry, stopping now and then to scribble lines on one of the half – dozen or so envelopes he always stuffed in his pocket. At work too, he would occasionally pause to write down fragments of poems, which he kept filed in the lower right – hand drawer of his desk and he would routinely hand his secretary these various scraps of verse for typing. Although his colleagues were aware of his poetry, Stevens assiduously avoided talking about it, preferring to maintain the face of a mild – mannered, somewhat aloof businessman in all his public dealings with the world. In fact, far from stifling his creativity, his job seemed to suit his temperament and even encourage his poetry as he once said, “I find that having a job is one of the best things in the world that could happen to me. It introduces discipline and regularity into one’s life. I am just as free as I want to be.”

Ø  The Irish poet W. B. Yates made a habit of writing even amidst the lack of inspiration as he believed that not doing so affected his concentration. If he did not write, he believed it would break his regular schedule.

Ø  The American pianist and composer, George Gershwin, was also dismissive of inspiration as he once said that if he waited for the muse (inspiration), he would have composed at most 3 songs a year. For him, he found it was better to work every day. His brother, Ira Gershwin had this to say about him, “Like the pugilist, the songwriter must always keep in training” which was pretty evident his life.

Ø  In the late 1950’s, the American poet James Dickey had lost a university teaching position and needed a way to make money while he worked on his poetry. With the help of his sister -in – law’s neighbour, an executive at the advertising firm McCann Erickson, Dickey landed a job at the firm’s Atlanta office, writing radio commercials for Coca – Cola bottles around the county. It was a demanding position, made more so by the fact that Dickey was simultaneously trying to find time for his literary endeavours during the workday. He once said, “Every time I had a minute to spare, which was not often, I would stick a poem in the typewriter where I had been typing Coca – Cola ads.” Unlike most of his colleagues, Dickey kept his office door shut. If a colleague came knocking, he would clean his desk of poems and poetry books. One colleague recounted Dickey’s constant efforts to outsmart his bosses, “If they said, ‘Alright, today we need 10 television commercials and five radio commercials and two print ads, this is your assignment for the day’, he would say, ‘Okay’ and would then shut the door and within one hour, he would have it all done. Thus he would spend the rest of the time working on his own work – his correspondence, his poems. But of course they didn’t know that. They figured, ‘That will keep him busy all day’, but he was so smart and so fast, he could get it all done.” Dickey eventually worked for three Atlanta ad agencies, seeking senior positions in the hope that developing big – picture creative campaigns would be less demanding than churning out a constant stream of radio and television ads. Meanwhile, his poetry career was gaining momentum wherein he had won several significant prizes and he was working hard to finish a manuscript for publication. By 1961, however, his boss had caught on to the fact that Dickey was more concerned with literature than with advertising and fired him wherein he then wrote to his friend that after five and a half years of working in what he called, “the dark Satanic mills of American business”, he was finally out at last.

Ø  It’s been said that the English novelist and poet, George Orwell could not support himself financially with his writing alone and so worked at Booklover’s Corner located in South End Green in Hampstead, North London where he would use his free time during work to do his writing.

Ø  The novelist and short – story writer, Bernard Malamud was a very time – conscious man and although he made his living as a teacher for most of his life, he always found time to write and apparently never lacked for discipline as he once said, “Discipline is an ideal for the self. If you have to discipline yourself to achieve art, you discipline yourself.” Malamud began writing seriously in 1940 when he was 26 years old and soon after landed a job teaching night school in Brooklyn. His classes were from 6 p.m. in the evening till 10 p.m. in the night and so he was able to write for 5 hours during the day, typically between 10 a.m. in the morning and 5 p.m. in the evening with a break at 12:30 p.m. to eat lunch, shave and read for an hour. After eight years of this schedule, Malamud accepted a university teaching position in Oregon, moving there in 1949 with his wife and their young son. At the time, he had yet even to sell a story. But over the next dozen years, he wrote 4 books, thanks in part to a favourable teaching schedule. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays were devoted to classes, office hours and grading papers; Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays, Malamud spent on his novels and short stories. A full morning of writing usually amounted to only a page or two at least and after lunch, he revised the morning’s output.

From the above examples, we see how people like you and me did their best to squeeze and make the most of the time they had at hand and this does not mean we have to follow their scheduled to the ‘T’. In fact, it is next to impossible given that each of our circumstances are so different. However, having gone through the ways they went about their day and made time for their craft despite holding regular jobs is something I think we can take inspiration from especially in the case of Bernard Malamud whose discipline was a springboard for his productivity and work of art. In one word, it is about consistency as he (Malamud) once explained, “There’s no one way – there’s too much denial about this subject. You’re who you are, not Fitzgerald or Thomas Wolfe. You write by sitting down and writing. There’s no particular time or place – you suit yourself, your nature. How one works, assuming he is disciplined, doesn’t matter. If he or she is not disciplined, no sympathetic magic will help. The trick is to make time, not steal it and produce the fiction. If the stories come, you get them written, you are on the right track. Eventually everyone learns his or her own best way. The real mystery to crack is you.”

            The good thing is that life continues to give us a ‘second chance’ at least for the moment, because we have today, the present moment. The question is how would we spend it? What will we make of it? What will it amount to? While time is ultimately the dictator of our presence here on earth, we do dictate how we spend it as long as we are aware of it, aware of its value and the importance of managing it well, as long as we are putting it to work for us, even as it is working against us in the mortal sense. To not be aware of the importance of this crucial fact, to not respect and to not know how to use and manage the time we have, is not only just sloppy, it is totally absurd, as the Stoic philosopher, Seneca, once wrote, “People are frugal in guarding their personal property; but as soon it comes to squandering time, they are the most wasteful of the one thing in which it is right to be stingy”, an issue that is still applicable today.

            People protect their property in all sorts of ways whether that is through locks, security systems and storage but most do little to protect time. May we learn to become more conscious of the way we use our time so that we don’t fall into the third category of people in a popular quote which goes, “Some people make things happen while some watch things happen and some wonder what happened.” God love you! Stay blessed!

 

 

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