When life throws lemons at you ............... What do you do?


WHEN LIFE THROWS LEMONS AT YOU …………… WHAT DO YOU DO???

Mario D’Couto

            The best investment that anyone can make is the investments in one’s self and on the flip side, while we may continue to find ourselves in the confinement of our homes, this may be a golden opportunity to invest in self – learning. A polymath is defined as a person with extraordinarily broad and comprehensive knowledge. They are the ones who are able to take the ideas from different streams and fields of knowledge and are able to make connections between two completely different fields of study which to the ordinary mind would seem unrelatable.  Some of the prominent people I can think of in this regard are Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton and so on but one person who I would like to elaborate a little more in detail in this blogpost is one whom you may have come across but perhaps not given much thought to and that man is, Leonardo Da Vinci.

            The first thing that comes to mind when we think of Leonardo Da Vinci is artwork. And yes, there is no fraction of a doubt that his art speaks volumes but he was more than that. He was also an anatomist, architect, botanist, city planner, costume and stage designer, chef, humanist, engineer, equestrian, inventor, geographer, geologist, mathematician, military scientist, musician, painter, philosopher, physicist and raconteur. With the being said, can we become Da Vinci? Absolutely not! But can the fundamentals of Leonardo Da Vinci’s approach to learning and cultivation of intelligence be abstracted and applied to inspire and guide us, in our own journey toward the realization of our full potential? Yes! In this blogpost/article we are going to look at some ways on how we can achieve this.

            Michael J. Gelb in his book, “Think like Da Vinci” gives us seven different ways on how we can sharpen and hone our own potential based on the life of Da Vinci through (the words used below are in Italian),

1.      Curiosita, [which is learning to question and developing an unrelentless quest for continuous learning]
2.      Dimostrazione, [which is a commitment to test knowledge through experience, persistence and a willingness to learn from mistakes]
3.      Sensazione [which is the refining of the senses so as to make it more efficient for us to understand our surroundings and reality at a deeper level]
4.      Sfumato [which is the ability and the willingness to embrace ambiguity, paradox and uncertainty]
5.      Arte/Scienza [which is the development of the balance between science and logic alongside with art and imagination (whole – brain thinking)]
6.      Corporalita [which is the cultivation of grace, ambidexterity, fitness and poise]
7.      Conessione [which is the recognition of and appreciation for inter – connectedness of all things and phenomena (system – thinking)]

            Just to elaborate a little on what has been mentioned above, asking questions is half the problem solved (Curiosita). No wonder the question mark acts as a symbol of finding out answers as the hook can be seen or viewed as an analogy for digging out answers [ ? << – looks like a sickle]. Most of our educative systems today seem to be missing this point, in the sense, that it seems as though right from school, most of us have always been taught to accept things the way they are and while information is good, learning to ask questions, not only helps the subject or whatever that is you would like to know meaningful but it also makes it more personal and helps you remember it for a long time. If you feel that your questions have no value or if you think what others are going to say if you were to ask something, here’s a piece of advice worth keeping in mind, “He who asks  a question may be a fool for a day but he who does not question is a fool for life”.



          Having said that, in the process of asking questions and trying to find out and learn about things, there are times that mistakes are bound to happen. This is where our persistence, resilience and willingness to learn from mistakes come into play (dimostrazione). If I want to get from point A to point C but get stuck at point B, do you think I am going to reach at point C? Obviously not! We may have come across so many motivational speeches from different authors, artists, musicians, sportsmen, entrepreneurs or ‘self – help gurus’ who talk about not giving up and moving forward and while I will admit that it could sound cliché, nothing can be further from the truth. It kind of reminds me of the stone cutter who broke the huge boulder not so much from the 101st blow but because of the 100 blows that preceded it. If he had to stop in between, the huge boulder is not going to break on its own.


Now to make this happen, we need the tools isn’t it? That’s where our senses come into play (sensazione). Leonardo Da Vinci wrote, “The average human looks without seeing, listens without hearing, touches without feeling, eats without tasting, moves without physical awareness, inhales without awareness of odour or fragrance and talks without thinking.” Given our fast – paced lives, running from pillar to post, it seems what Da Vinci is trying to say is true. Perhaps if we can take more time out for ourselves or make some part of our day as a time exclusively for ourselves, those moments can be used to reflect on the wonders of our 5 senses and how each one of them can become a great means towards understanding our reality at a deeper level. The human body is indeed one of God’s greatest creation (if in case you have missed, do check out my other blogpost/reflection/article, “The human body – An analogy of living for Christ”, https://insightsfromacommonman.blogspot.com/2020/05/the-human-body-analogy-of-living-for.html).

Yet, there are times when we will have to face uncertainty (Sfumato). There may be doubts whether are we going along the right path, whether what we’re doing is right or wrong and so on but as change is constant it’s our ability to adapt and ride along the waves in the ocean of life that will help us get to the shore or we may find ourselves drowning in despair and meaninglessness.


It is said that exercise is not only good for the body but also helps in the development of one’s mind, helping it to become mentally sharp and focussed (Corporalita, Arte/Scienza). Studies and research in recent times have proven that this is true and there’s more to gain than to lose. No wonder there seems to be a great hype about fitness today more than ever before. But more than that, developing a fitness regime instils discipline and for some reason, this ‘good quality’ so to speak spills into other areas of our lives as well. Typically, people who exercise start eating better and become more productive at work. They smoke less (not that all who exercise or work out are smokers) and show more patience with their colleagues and family. They use their credit cards less frequently and say they feel less stressed. It’s not completely clear why, but for many people, exercise is a keystone habit that triggers widespread change. James Prochaska, a researcher from the University of Rhode Island would put it this way, “Exercise spills over. There’s something about it that makes the other good habits easier” or consider what Todd Heatherton, a researcher at Dartmouth who has done studies on willpower had to say, “When you learn to force yourself to go to the gym or start your homework or eat a salad instead of a hamburger, part of what’s happening is that you’re changing how you think. People get better at regulating their impulses. They learn how to distract themselves from temptations. And once you’ve gotten into that will power groove, your brain is practised at helping you focus on a goal.”

            And finally, we have conessione, which is like connecting the dots and the pieces of the puzzle to get a comprehensive understanding of one’s reality. In fact, if you would have probably noticed, I am trying to do just that, connecting the seven ways and a making a synthesis out of it. If you would like to know more in depth, do check out Michael J. Gelb’s book, “Think like Da Vinci. It’s definitely worth reading.



            To conclude, let’s not forget Leonardo Da Vinci’s background. Being born out of wedlock, he did not have the privilege of being educated in a way that his other siblings were educated. But that did not stop him from learning on his own. Today, the name “Leonardo Da Vinci” is a household name, whose personality is associated with genius and creativity. I guess the only obstacle in our path to progress is ourselves. Perhaps, we could take some time to think, “Do I hold limiting beliefs of myself?” or “Do I feel that I’m not good at anything and if so, why?” “How can I take the above seven ways and make it a part of my own life?”





           St. Irenaeus said, “The glory of God is the human person fully alive”, I don’t think there’s a better gift that we can give back to our dear God than making the best of what we have and trying to live to the best of our ability, thereby giving glory to Him.

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