Religion, religiosity and religious experience
RELIGION,
RELIGIOSITY AND RELIGIOUS EXPERIENCE
Mario
D’Couto
A person who goes for Mass every day and who spends time
in prayer for a considerable amount of time is no guarantee to show that he or
she is a saint. Nobody who commits suicide or dies is called a ‘martyr’. We
give credit to people of virtue for the kind of life that they live and this
is what takes me to the point of religious experience.
A religious experience is not a drug – induced state,
that is to say, each time one experiences a feeling of being drawn toward
religion or feeling good. Such a feeling should never be equated with some sort
of spiritual ‘high’, so much so that a person loses touch with reality. The
true and genuine meaning of religious experience is to be in love in an
unrestricted fashion, we should love everyone without any distinction.
Mere blind religiosity is useless. Even non – Christian
or pagans carry out such things. Religiosity refers to the things done with
regard to religion which mostly consists of rituals. The danger of this kind of approach is that we could get lost with the kind of work we are in. We could be
doing things without knowing why we are doing such things. It could become just
a mere mechanical routine. So how then does one distinguish between religion
and religiosity for even in religion we see that a lot of ‘ritualism’ takes
place (in a positive sense). Where do we draw the ‘thin red line’ between the
two? What is the criteria for true and authentic religious experience that
would lead one to a better understanding and a genuine appreciation of one's faith?
Here are the words of St. John Marie Vianney which helps shed some light on
this particular topic,
“My dear brethren, listen
well and you will understand if you have religion as God wants you to have it
in order to lead you to Heaven. If a person has true virtue, nothing whatsoever
can change him, he is like a rock in the midst of a tempestuous sea. If anyone
scorns you, or mocks at you or calls you a hypocrite or a fraud, none of this
will have the least effect upon your peace of soul. You will love the offender
just as much as you loved him when he was saying good things about you. You
will not fail to do him a good turn and to help him, even if he speaks badly of
your assistance. You will say your prayers, go to Confession, to Holy
Communion, all according to your general custom.”
To illustrate this point more clearly, here is a story he
narrates, “In a certain parish there was a young man who was a model of
virtue. He went to Mass everyday and to Holy Communion often. It happened that
another man was jealous of him. One day, when both of them were in the company
of a neighbour who possessed a lovely gold snuffbox, the jealous man took it
from the owner’s pocket and placed it, unobserved, in the pocket of this holy
young man. After he did this, without pretending anything, he asked to see the
snuffbox. The owner expected to find it in his pocket and was astonished when
he discovered that it was missing. No one was allowed to leave the room until
everyone had been searched and the snuffbox was found, of course, in the young
man’s pocket who was a model of goodness. Naturally, everyone immediately
called him a thief and attacked his character, calling him a hypocrite and a
fraud. He could not defend himself since the box had been found in his pocket.
He said nothing. He suffered it all as something which had come from the hand
of God. When he was walking alone the street, when he was coming from the
Church, everyone who saw him, jeered at him and called him a hypocrite, a fraud
and a thief. This went on for a long time, but inspite of it, he continued with
all of his religious exercises, his confession, his communion and all other
practices of piety, as though everyone was treating him with the utmost
respect. After some years, the man who had been the cause of it all fell ill.
To those who were with him, he confessed that he had been the cause of all the
evil things which had been said about this young man, who was a saint, and that
through jealousy of him, so that he might destroy his good name, he himself had
put the snuffbox in the young man’s pocket.”
This is the kind of true religion that he is talking
about. In the Gospel narrations, we see the lives of the Pharisees and
Sadducees and why Our Lord would get angry with them. It was not that He hated
them as persons; He did not like their attitude. As a saying goes, “God
loves the sinner but hates their sins”, the Pharisees were caught up
with their ritualistic lives and what was worse was that they sometimes lived
‘double lives’, showing one kind of person, moving around with a mask outside
and hiding their true selves. May we learn to appreciate our faith more
genuinely and live by it, let us practice religion (our faith) and not
religiosity, let us be people of true and authentic religious experience.