The 'Child' within!
THE
‘CHILD’ WITHIN!
Cl.
Mario D’Couto SDB
One
of the classic gospel passages that highlights the importance of being a child
is found in Luke 18: 15 -17. A child is one who is open and innocent. There is
no malice or guile found in a child. It does not think or worry about how to
manipulate, exploit or extract sources for the wrong reasons. It is for this
reason, therefore, that each child is an image of God.
In
the world that we live in that has, so to say, been marred by the fast – paced
life, everything that a person does, is geared towards how much “I” can get from
it. Thus, in this case, the “I” or the “ego” becomes dominant. In a child, this
is not the case. He or she is always open and is therefore ready to adjust.
‘Play’
is an important aspect in a child’s life. It takes him or her to another world
and brings in a lot of joy and happiness. Sometimes, in our busy schedule, it
is nice to play for a little while on a regular basis as it eases the tension
within. This would include anything like playing a sport or playing music. Let
us therefore not be perturbed to bring out the ‘child’ within. However, it is
important to be ‘childlike” and not “childish.” There is a big difference between
the two. Being ‘childlike’ includes those qualities that have already been
mentioned before such as openness, docility, innocence and so on. Being
‘childish,’ on the other hand, involves throwing one’s tantrums and being fussy
about anything and everything.
I
guess each of us is mature enough to choose the path we want to follow. So let
us therefore become ‘childlike’ and not ‘childish’.